If Not Now, Then When?

Meditation-4

I met someone recently who has stayed in my mind. A young, charismatic man with multiple sclerosis. He had come to one of the premieres of The Connection on our recent world tour.

 

The reason our meeting stayed with me is because he was already across some of the research featured in the film about how important our mind is when it comes to our health. He’d already read the books written by Professor George Jelinek, who has developed an evidence based program to help other people recover from MS. This young man was strict about his plant based, whole food diet and taking his vitamins. He was learning to meditate and practice mindfulness. He had taken steps to reduce the stress in his life. He was already doing the really hard work. But…

 

He was still smoking.

 

The research on smoking in relation to MS is alarming. The Overcoming Multiple Sclerosis website points to a recent study of nurses in the US which found that compared with women who had never smoked, the risk of getting MS was 1.6 times greater for people who smoked. This was supported by a Norwegian study, which showed a similar risk, with smokers 1.8 times more likely to develop MS than non-smokers. And it gets worse. According to a Harvard study, if someone is already diagnosed with MS and continues to smoke, they were significantly more likely to have progressive disease, and to progress at an earlier age.

 

So what was he waiting for? Why would this young man jeopardize his chances of recovery?

 

I couldn’t help but think of Scott Stephens, who’s featured in the film after he recovered from Stage 4 melanoma against the odds.  He was in his early 20s when he was first told he had cancer. He was a typical Aussie bloke – a carpenter and surfer, who loved meat pies and drinking beer. Over a number of years, the cancer progressed and he was offered chemotherapy only as a palliative treatment.

 

Scott was facing death. But in desperation, he attended a retreat at The Gawler Foundation and learned about things he could do for himself, beyond the medical system. He started eating organic, vegan food and juicing. He began learning to understand his emotions, meditating for hours a day and practicing Qi Gong.

 

Scott’s approach was uncompromising and even more remarkably, after 8 years of being cancer free, it still is.

 

For Scott, it took a sledgehammer. It took a doctor telling him that drugs would only give him a 5-10% chance of survival.  He laughs as he talks about shedding a tear when he cleared the beer out of his fridge and describes eating his cous cous salad while his colleagues at work tuck into hamburgers.  But he looks completely at peace when I review the images we took of him meditating in amongst the timber stacks and circular saws at his workplace. Here is a snippet of video taken from my extended interview with Scott in the Conversation Series where he talks about the changes he made. As you will hear in the video, despite the difficulties some of the people around him have had in accepting his choices, Scott loves his life. He has no regrets.  He is alive.

 

 The question that Scott put to the audience during a panel discussion after our Sydney premiere is still ringing in my ears. Why wait until you get hit over the head with a sledgehammer to make these changes? Whether it’s working too much, neglecting your loved ones or needing to take a more honest look at some of your diet or other lifestyle choices, my question to you is what is holding you back from making the changes you want to make?  If you don’t make them now… when will you?

  • Carla

    I attended the premiere in Los Angeles (my husband and I spoke with you
    after the presentation), and have since purchased the movie, the
    extended conversations, and the meditation manual. All of this has been
    life changing for me. The research reported by the experts and the
    anecdotal information in the film and conversations have inspired me to
    make some much needed changes in my life towards better health. I am
    already noticing that my stress/anxiety level is reduced, and I look
    forward to my daily meditation time (unlike before when I would tell
    myself 'I should meditate sometime today'!). I find myself taking short
    meditation breaks at work to help me get through the day! Thank you
    for bringing all of this together, Shannon. It has really made a
    difference in my life. :)

  • akrodif

    I second that. I too have attended a premiere and just bought my De-Luxe pack. I very much enjoy my new lifestyle and am trying to meditate whenever and wherever possible. This is a whole new world we are discovering and I am so greatfull for that. Good luck Carla and thank you Shannon and team for sharing your excellent work.

  • Shannon Harvey

    Thank you Carla for this wonderful response. I remember you at the LA premiere. It is so amazing to hear that you are already noticing the difference in your life. I know the feeling. :-)

  • Shannon Harvey

    Wow. Thank you for telling me. It's so great to hear from people who have seen the film!

About the author: Shannon Harvey

Shannon Harvey is a journalist and producer who was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease when she was 24 years old. Although doctors meant well, none could offer her a cause or a cure. Since then Shannon has been researching the latest scientific research linking her mind and body to health outcomes. Nearly 10 years have passed since her diagnosis and today Shannon is well and not taking medication. Shannon has worked as a television, radio and online journalist and producer and has a Master’s degree in Communications. She worked for the ABC and Fairfax before starting her own production company, Elemental Media. Shannon is the director of the feature film The Connection.

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